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I Need Help and Will Pay it Forward when I can

Pay it Forward started this conversation
Jan 20, 2007

Hello

I am 41 yo single female.  I live paycheck to paycheck and am drowning in debt.  Over the last 3 years I have been plagued with numerous Medical Bills.  Those along with @9K student loans and another $12K in credit card bills make it very difficult to ever catch up yet get ahead.  I work full-time and I am a good person.  As soon as possible I will give back.  I do believe in living by the Golden Rule.

Thanks

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DenDee
Apr 5, 2010

Dear "Pay if Forward" 

It is not 3 years since you made this initial post.  Assuming you somehow still get comments to your post --- can you fill us in.  How have you been doing these past 3 years?  Where you able to get your "head above water?"  Are there some things you can share with us that worked well for you?

- DenDee 

 

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diva1
May 18, 2008

i'm single female 30 yrs old i need help paying my credit bill 4,000 i own one credit card

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theresa
Jan 20, 2007

1) Visit this website! The woman who started it, Mary Hunt, was over $100,000 in debt and paid it all off. Her story is inspirational and the tools on her website are very useful: http://www.cheapskate monthly.com/ 2) Focus on your blessings. Make an effort to be especially grateful for anything you have every day as often as possible. When you focus on the negatives and your debt, you draw that to you. When focus on your abundance, you draw that to you. You are like a magnet. Instead of dreading the bills, celebrate abundance of any form that comes into your lift. You will turn your mental attitude around and then your life will turn around too. Been there and done it!

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